I have a confession to make…
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I really cannot stand virgins in my age group, especially christian virgins. My experiences with them are usually tinged annoyance. I cannot talk about sex without them bringing up how they are glad they chose to wait so their first times will be special, as if I lost mine at the back of a dirty alley. They make me feel like I’m some kind of prostitute. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely respect someone who choses to wait based on their own decision autonomous from religion or peer pressure. That’s alright with me. It’s the ones who rub their hymen in my face that piss me off. The ones who act as though I am dirty because I’m not a virgin, and that I am somehow of less worth because I chose to have sex.
So here’s another pet-peeve: Self Righteous virgins who think their worth lies within the flap of skin between their legs.
Anyway, I’ve been thinking a lot lately, about the near near future. Hopefully I make the right choices.
later lovers, sorry for the long silence. We’re adjusting.
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> Self Righteous virgins who think their worth lies within the flap of skin between their legs.
The entire basis of religion - at least the Abrahamic ones - is brainwashing people (and girls especially) into believing that a woman’s value *is* tied up in her “purity”.
Only it’s not for reasons of love or romance or the sanctity of marriage - those are all modern inventions of the last century or two.
Rather, it’s because a virginal woman is more valuable to her father, because she can get herself a better husband, who in turn finds more value in her because she comes with a paternity guarantee for any children. It’s that male insecurity that makes it so important for a patriarchial institution like the church to want to control female sexuality.
It’s incredibly backwards, primitive, anti-sex and anti-woman.
I almost feel sorry for those types. My advice is just throw it right back in their face - they’re wasting their sexual prime, their first time will be clumsy and suck, and odds are they’ll wind up getting divorced down the road and have “saved themselves” for nothing.
“and odds are they’ll wind up getting divorced down the road and have “saved themselves” for nothing.”
heh that’s sad