One can fail multiple times but that is not the same thing with being a failure.
In definition; to fail is to be unsuccessful in achieving a goal or to cease to work and failure is lack of success or to be in a state ofnot functioning.
One can nourmerous time at doing something but for as long as you don’t give up, you are not a failure becuase being a failure is when you stop trying. If you’ve ever heard the line “if at first you don’t succeed, try again”, you will undestand that trying makes you far better than ceasing to try.
No matter what happens, not matter how hard; if you really want something you keep working at it and finding ways to achieve it.